Friday, September 09, 2005

NEWS revolution

I've never had a problem with the content of what's in the news. Infact I'm quite the news junkie; hit every known website, never miss the 8am and 11pm, addicted to CBC radio because of it's every half hour updates, and read the paper with breakfast. No I'm not a cardigan wearing 80 yr old in slippers, BUT I enjoy knowing EVERYTHING. Tonight was different. I tried very hard not to cry with what they were throwing at me. Everything was depressing. I used to ream my sister out for refusing to watch anything that wasn't comedy, but I think I just understood how overwhelming it is being bombarded with sad stories. Maybe I'm just PMSing, maybe I've heard enough, starting today though I vow to limit my daily news intake: yes to 8am, no to newspaper with breakfast, yes to cbc radio. NO to 11pm nightly news. eeek! I don't know if I can handle it, will keep you posted.

Saturday, September 03, 2005

2am Gong-Show

I went on my patio for a smoke. There's this old house behind my apartment. New West. has a lot of those. Some are heritage homes, most just shabby looking. Anyway, there's this old house that seems to come alive every Friday, Saturday night, even Tuesdays if they feel like it. It doesn't come alive in that good people having a good time kind of alive, but more like red-necks wasting away on meth, tripping over themselves and blasting heaving music just to get a rise out of everyone that has to deal with their noise. I don't like them much. But tonight as I was having my smoke, a girl came walking down the alley. She looked 'normal'. She wasn't their type, just an average young girl, though her heels were a bit higher than I would wear. She clikity-clacked over to the stairs, and found her boyfriend sitting there. They had an arguement, he was calling her names and acting like the jerk he is, she was trying to quiet him down, to listen to her. He answered his cell, but not before the ring tone got abnoxious, made a few jokes w/ his buddy. She cried and I went inside, not really listening to their conversation anyway. I know what it's like to be blind to what kind of person you're with, put up with a lot until you realize you're either in for good or have to walk away. But I still don't understand why so many assholes, shitty guys who can't even shower let alone keep a job, get so lucky that there's a great girl willing to put out for them. Just doesn't make sense.

So I had my smoke, I go to put away the dishes and my dog starts barking furiously at the door. I start to yell at him as I do when he pisses me off, and then someone pounds at my door! I was about to tear it open and give the moron a piece of my mind, considering 90% of the tenants are dog owners, cause this is the only apartment that permits them, this idiot should know better being a retard in the hallways at 2am.

Just before I do that, I look through the peep hole and see a huge sweaty, piss drunk guy without his shirt on. OK, maybe I won't give him a piece of my mind after a while. I hide my dg in the bedroom and lean closer to the door, listening to the coversation stoner is having w/ his (ex?) girlfriend. Another decent girl! I can feel the tension between them as I sit near the door, and hear her attempts at making him understand why it's over. Then the tears come, and he puts her down. She gives in, agrees that it's all her fault and that he's got the biggest balls than anyone she'll ever know.

I was going to write that I walked away. But just as I was trying to fall asleep, the guy started throwing things out of the apartment and getting all violent. It died down for a while, because they went inside, but all of a sudden the girl ran to our door and started pounding! I opened the door and she just said "call the police" and ran back in. She had a black eye. I feel aweful for not calling right when things got violent. It's funny how w/ one look, and she knew that I know she's serious, and that he can't know she is calling the police. I called, they brought in five cops who handled him well, joking around and keeping him talking while they got the details from the girl. Turns out he's had woman problems in the past. And they took him away under assault charges.

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Just found out the guy who beat his girlfriend had first totaled his brand new sports car into 4 vehicles outside our apartment. wtf? Lots of witnesses, he had pinned her to the ground out front and no one called the police. hmm

Summer '05

Success! I managed to DO things this summer. It's amazing what weekends off can do for a person. Really, why have I been working 6-7 days a week? I'm trying to decide if it's because bills need to be paid but am now considering the possibility that I am infact a ... workaholic.

Things I want to remember from summer of 2005:


  • the sound of loons calling eachother accross Boss Lake (near Merritt)
  • how damned good your first smokie tastes first night of camping
  • the proximity of the Milky Way, esp. on a dark night in the Okanagan (and those little aliens i swore i could see)
  • that the first 5 minutes are the hardest to cycle, once you start you'll eventually find your groove
  • cycling Mayne Island; you see more on a bicycle!
  • moss makes for a perfect bed
  • the drive to Vernon; two city folk attempting an escape in hopes of finding peace in the wilderness (we found a nightclub with a male:female ratio of 1:25)
  • police auctions are a gamble
  • wind over the our bluff at Boss lake (finally figuring out to move the truck in as a barrier)
  • kayak wet exits
  • The Angels in the heat of Abbotsford
  • pilates in the mornings
  • wearing my bikini w/ every outfit i have
  • Anna and I having our dishwasher wars
  • Nalgene water bottles
  • Toffino Trip -camping in a rainforest, getting the nerve to swim in the cold & loving it. Attempting to parent better than my parents did, and failing miserably.
  • Delayed ferry trips, littlo bro FINALLY falling asleep alongside his new dreamcatcher, to stop potential sleep walking - night terrors
  • gardening isn't only for old people w/ arthritis!
  • baking a cake is easier than I thought
  • how i enjoy smoking so much that i do it too often, get that grosse feeling which makes me slow down, think about quiting & doing it all over again
  • Charles Bukowski's "women". Funny at first, then you find yourself questioning everything your own man says/does. In the end you feel like throwing the book away for your own peace of mind.
  • Finding out that wildlife doesn't just put on a show for the tourists
  • Rock hopping Whyte Cliff Park
  • Apparently I'm a bit of an exhibitionist
  • The Tree Shower
  • Gulf Island tides are fast
  • note to self: buy bigger tent for next year
  • Romanian and Spick's BBQ
  • Lisa finding out it's a BOY!
  • my psycho moments, and how Dylan put up w/ them
  • the Birch Tree affair
  • Dylan, Dylan, Dylan :)
  • Jakub excited about sitting in a cockpit
  • Sofia's sentences going to 7 syllables and loving tag at summer camps, Connor loving hi s blog, Jihwan volunteering at Kid's Camps, Joshua's trip to Disneyland and his Potty Party

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