Monday, May 07, 2007

Age Groups

Something Jihwan wrote on my blog:
:)

Magda is adult. I am a teenager. I will be young adult in 2008. I will be mature adult in 2050. I will wear hat because I will be a grandpa. I will go heaven in 2100. Sofia is a child. Jame and Madline are toddlers. Zachary is infant.

  • infant is 0-6 months old
  • toddler is 6 months - 2.5 years old
  • child 3-12 years old
  • teenager 13-18 years old
  • young adult 18-22 years old
  • adult 22-60 years old
  • mature adult 60 to +100 years old
  • You go heaven because you die.

I will not die because It's scary.

Thursday, April 27, 2006

Kamran Nazeer

SEND IN THE IDiOTS Or How We Grew to Understand the World
by Kamran Nazeer. "A remarkable, elegantly written protrait of five autistic men and women, and what their struggles and triumphs reveal about this baffling condition, and about us all."

Currently on page 28... will let you know just how great it is.

Order of borrowers-to-be:
  1. Ellen F.
  2. Dylan
  3. Colleen
  4. Keri
  5. Melinda

Friday, March 03, 2006

what i did yesterday

Yesterday was a difficult day. I had another migraine but managed to work through it. My doctor gave me another migraine medication to try and it worked like magic! I got a little sleepy, but nothing compared to the pain of the migraine. Right now I am blogging with Connor, who is telling me instructions on how to do things. He decided that I should blog. He's giving me awesome instructions, and thought it was funny when I stood on the chair because he said 'now get on the chair' instead of 'sit on the chair'. I am now finished.

Friday, September 09, 2005

NEWS revolution

I've never had a problem with the content of what's in the news. Infact I'm quite the news junkie; hit every known website, never miss the 8am and 11pm, addicted to CBC radio because of it's every half hour updates, and read the paper with breakfast. No I'm not a cardigan wearing 80 yr old in slippers, BUT I enjoy knowing EVERYTHING. Tonight was different. I tried very hard not to cry with what they were throwing at me. Everything was depressing. I used to ream my sister out for refusing to watch anything that wasn't comedy, but I think I just understood how overwhelming it is being bombarded with sad stories. Maybe I'm just PMSing, maybe I've heard enough, starting today though I vow to limit my daily news intake: yes to 8am, no to newspaper with breakfast, yes to cbc radio. NO to 11pm nightly news. eeek! I don't know if I can handle it, will keep you posted.

Saturday, September 03, 2005

2am Gong-Show

I went on my patio for a smoke. There's this old house behind my apartment. New West. has a lot of those. Some are heritage homes, most just shabby looking. Anyway, there's this old house that seems to come alive every Friday, Saturday night, even Tuesdays if they feel like it. It doesn't come alive in that good people having a good time kind of alive, but more like red-necks wasting away on meth, tripping over themselves and blasting heaving music just to get a rise out of everyone that has to deal with their noise. I don't like them much. But tonight as I was having my smoke, a girl came walking down the alley. She looked 'normal'. She wasn't their type, just an average young girl, though her heels were a bit higher than I would wear. She clikity-clacked over to the stairs, and found her boyfriend sitting there. They had an arguement, he was calling her names and acting like the jerk he is, she was trying to quiet him down, to listen to her. He answered his cell, but not before the ring tone got abnoxious, made a few jokes w/ his buddy. She cried and I went inside, not really listening to their conversation anyway. I know what it's like to be blind to what kind of person you're with, put up with a lot until you realize you're either in for good or have to walk away. But I still don't understand why so many assholes, shitty guys who can't even shower let alone keep a job, get so lucky that there's a great girl willing to put out for them. Just doesn't make sense.

So I had my smoke, I go to put away the dishes and my dog starts barking furiously at the door. I start to yell at him as I do when he pisses me off, and then someone pounds at my door! I was about to tear it open and give the moron a piece of my mind, considering 90% of the tenants are dog owners, cause this is the only apartment that permits them, this idiot should know better being a retard in the hallways at 2am.

Just before I do that, I look through the peep hole and see a huge sweaty, piss drunk guy without his shirt on. OK, maybe I won't give him a piece of my mind after a while. I hide my dg in the bedroom and lean closer to the door, listening to the coversation stoner is having w/ his (ex?) girlfriend. Another decent girl! I can feel the tension between them as I sit near the door, and hear her attempts at making him understand why it's over. Then the tears come, and he puts her down. She gives in, agrees that it's all her fault and that he's got the biggest balls than anyone she'll ever know.

I was going to write that I walked away. But just as I was trying to fall asleep, the guy started throwing things out of the apartment and getting all violent. It died down for a while, because they went inside, but all of a sudden the girl ran to our door and started pounding! I opened the door and she just said "call the police" and ran back in. She had a black eye. I feel aweful for not calling right when things got violent. It's funny how w/ one look, and she knew that I know she's serious, and that he can't know she is calling the police. I called, they brought in five cops who handled him well, joking around and keeping him talking while they got the details from the girl. Turns out he's had woman problems in the past. And they took him away under assault charges.

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Just found out the guy who beat his girlfriend had first totaled his brand new sports car into 4 vehicles outside our apartment. wtf? Lots of witnesses, he had pinned her to the ground out front and no one called the police. hmm

Summer '05

Success! I managed to DO things this summer. It's amazing what weekends off can do for a person. Really, why have I been working 6-7 days a week? I'm trying to decide if it's because bills need to be paid but am now considering the possibility that I am infact a ... workaholic.

Things I want to remember from summer of 2005:


  • the sound of loons calling eachother accross Boss Lake (near Merritt)
  • how damned good your first smokie tastes first night of camping
  • the proximity of the Milky Way, esp. on a dark night in the Okanagan (and those little aliens i swore i could see)
  • that the first 5 minutes are the hardest to cycle, once you start you'll eventually find your groove
  • cycling Mayne Island; you see more on a bicycle!
  • moss makes for a perfect bed
  • the drive to Vernon; two city folk attempting an escape in hopes of finding peace in the wilderness (we found a nightclub with a male:female ratio of 1:25)
  • police auctions are a gamble
  • wind over the our bluff at Boss lake (finally figuring out to move the truck in as a barrier)
  • kayak wet exits
  • The Angels in the heat of Abbotsford
  • pilates in the mornings
  • wearing my bikini w/ every outfit i have
  • Anna and I having our dishwasher wars
  • Nalgene water bottles
  • Toffino Trip -camping in a rainforest, getting the nerve to swim in the cold & loving it. Attempting to parent better than my parents did, and failing miserably.
  • Delayed ferry trips, littlo bro FINALLY falling asleep alongside his new dreamcatcher, to stop potential sleep walking - night terrors
  • gardening isn't only for old people w/ arthritis!
  • baking a cake is easier than I thought
  • how i enjoy smoking so much that i do it too often, get that grosse feeling which makes me slow down, think about quiting & doing it all over again
  • Charles Bukowski's "women". Funny at first, then you find yourself questioning everything your own man says/does. In the end you feel like throwing the book away for your own peace of mind.
  • Finding out that wildlife doesn't just put on a show for the tourists
  • Rock hopping Whyte Cliff Park
  • Apparently I'm a bit of an exhibitionist
  • The Tree Shower
  • Gulf Island tides are fast
  • note to self: buy bigger tent for next year
  • Romanian and Spick's BBQ
  • Lisa finding out it's a BOY!
  • my psycho moments, and how Dylan put up w/ them
  • the Birch Tree affair
  • Dylan, Dylan, Dylan :)
  • Jakub excited about sitting in a cockpit
  • Sofia's sentences going to 7 syllables and loving tag at summer camps, Connor loving hi s blog, Jihwan volunteering at Kid's Camps, Joshua's trip to Disneyland and his Potty Party

PHOTO GALLERY

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Gallery

Tuesday, May 31, 2005

DO NOTHING & LOOK PRETTY DOING IT

Something we all aspire to
(secretly of coarse... dang, blew that one)


Monday, April 11, 2005

BIRTHDAYS



Years I plan to celebrate, b/c I'm too old for
parties and b-day presents:

  • The last year in my twenties, the big 29!
  • At the start of a decade ( my 2nd 29th, 40, 50...)
  • Every half a decade (25, 35, 45...)

All you wanted to know about

The term METROSEXUAL:

http://www.wordspy.com/words/metrosexual.asp

Personally, the idea of dating a man who dresses better than a woman is a scary thought. Maybe it's becuase that's a concept I haven't grown up with, and maybe a fear of the unknown blurs my beliefs. As of yet I am undecided if a man who takes longer in the bathroom than me exhibits self conscious behaviours and therefore is insecure, or that he's actually secure with who he is and not affraid to express that to the max. Either way most women I know cringe and walk away from Mr. Narcissus. Don't get me wrong, it's awesome that there's so many gorgeous men to look at, and that we live in a city with lots of self exprssing trends. But speaking for myself, I like a good ol' fashioned man, who doesn't run to the mirror in the mornings and isn't bothered by a five o'clock shadow.


mmm. Jude Law
(2 my Honey Bunny:
I woulda put your picture up for a shot of
scruffyness, but it's the internet and all
and some Turd Ferguson might want a piece
of you, so instead I found the best representation
of your likeness... :)